Ms. Cornell spent years as a single mother going through the horrors of the Hollywood dating scene. After getting dumped by a series of schmucks, she completely gave up on men. Through what can only be described as “a prayer miracle”, she met her future husband the next day — and subsequently inherited a stepson, Kevin, who was born with osteogenesis or “brittle-bone” disease. Fortunately, he is now in remission. “This family is the biggest gift of my life.

And though marriage in a blended family isn’t easy, I think you’re supposed to be married to the person who annoys you the most. The most spiritual growth happens with your enemies!” she says jokingly. (“The Arabs and Israelis are next door to each other for a reason, they just don’t get it yet.”)

Lydia also wrote a novel, The Sylvia Plan, an international thriller based on the true story of one of Stalin’s most complex assassins: the man who killed Trotsky. It takes place in Paris, Barcelona and Mexico and is a reverse Mata Hari tale with an Oedipal twist — focusing on the assassin, his mother and the innocent woman he seduces. Mercader was a chameleon that could change identities at will. In Cuba, he trained Lee Harvey Oswald in spy tactics and guerrilla warfare. Lydia also went to Beirut, Lebanon during the war and US Magazine published her “Beirut Diary”. Like Spalding Gray, Lydia also does a form of monologue comedy, based on tragic experiences in her dating life. Her one-woman show Relationshop played to sold-out audiences in Los Angeles.

Lydia’s frustration with the media compelled her to write the film Venus Conspiracy, about a plot to keep women thin and insecure. The lead character, a “recovering blonde”, in withdrawal from being a cleavage-wearing bimbo, laments, “All human suffering is caused by Victoria’s Secret!” Lydia teamed up with her former co-star Deborah Van Valkenburgh for the film. Ironically both actresses portray sisters in “Venus” as they did some twenty years prior. “Working with Deborah again was the most fun I've had ever,” explains Lydia, “We laughed until we cried.” This zany, poignant comedy-thriller in the vein of “Dr. Strangelove” and “Mr. Smith Goes to Washington” clearly sends a message to all women, “Women have never achieved as much as men because they spend too much time putting on makeup!” Through Venus Conspiracy Lydia is hoping to raise awareness among young women and girls – that the beauty industry exploits them and deliberately makes them obsolete when they reach 30 years old. “I actually know nine-year old girls who are obsessed with their wrinkles! And weight!” Ms. Cornell herself suffered years of unemployment and lack of faith in herself once she hit 30 — and had many experiences being rejected as an actress and worrying about body image and weight. “A lot of it was in my head — but I actually fainted from fear at an audition once. Of course my jeans were so tight I hyperventilated, but being critiqued for every flaw on your body is demoralizing.”

Lydia often had to dress like a hooker for movie roles (Hollywood loves to glorify them in films like “Pretty Woman”) and once, on her way to an audition, she was actually mistaken for a hooker! “Maybe it was the dog collar and leash I was wearing.” In retrospect, these incidents are hilarious, but at the time, not so funny. “They objectify women, paint us into a corner. And only by gaining faith in ourselves and enriching our interior lives can we combat this social programming. But still, there really may be a plot – a very sexist plot to dumb women down. I mean, why is Paris Hilton famous? It’s possible that we are all being brainwashed and kept in fear so they can make money off our insecurities.” Women shouldn’t be made to feel defective if they don’t look like a Playmate or a supermodel. As one of her characters in Venus states: “Why do we perpetuate the myth that the only valuable women in society are teenage, wombless buttless mutants?” Incredibly, Lydia has developed 40 episodes from “Venus” as a comedy series about spiritual growth.

Lydia has been a recurring celebrity guest on PBS’ think-tank Di Palma Forum and speaker on drug and alcohol abuse. She supports research on behalf of The Miami Project to Cure Paralysis, Children Affected by AIDS, Habitat for Humanity, and Missions at Bel Air Church. She was recently profiled on Inside TV, A&E Biography, ET, E-Channel; People;Femmes Fatales, Women on Top and Asbury Park Press. She has had extensive theater, film and television experience. Credits include Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Drew Carey Show; the lead in indie films Nooner; Story of Dean & Nancy; Physical therapy; Happy Holidaze; *Miss Supreme Queen, Damage Done, Final Act, Black Scorpion and soon her own film Venus Conspiracy. Other credits include: The Red Tide (w/ James Earl Jones & José Ferrer) Quantum Leap Pilot, Hunter, Hotel, Hardball, Twilight Zone, Simon & Simon, Full House, Knight Rider, Love Boat (5), Hexed, T.J. Hooker, A-Team, Fantasy Island, Charlie’s Angels, Dukes, Monsters, Dick Clark’s Rockin’ Eve (co-host). She co-hosted the Victor Awards, the BRAVO Awards with Garry Marshall, JAKS Awards with Bill Cosby. On stage, she appeared in Colorado Shakespeare Festival’s Midsummer Night’s Dream, Othello and As You Like It; Ibsen's Enemy of the People; Of Mice and Men, The Seagull, Uncle Vanya, Bus Stop, Butterflies Are Free, Night of January 16 and Los Arboles Mueren de Pie in Spanish. She studied with Stella Adler, Jeff Corey, John Lehne and Nina Foch.